Wednesday, June 26th, 2019

It’s Time to Talk About That Elephant

“You’re not learning anything unless you’re having the difficult conversations.” – Gwyneth Paltrow

Maybe you have already had your annual partner retreat. Did you talk about the elephant in the room?

Maybe your annual retreat is coming up soon. Will you talk about the elephant in the room?

I have been involved in and facilitated many retreats and often, as the old saying goes, it is like pulling teeth to get partners to be completely honest and talk about the elephant.

Whether you are in a partner meeting or in a performance feedback session with a team member, it can be difficult to address those elephants.

Marlene Chism has some great advice for discussing the undiscussables in her article via SmartBrief. She gives some specific, practical advice on how to:

  1. Get out of your head
  2. Get out of the story
  3. Own your stuff
  4. Set a positive intention

Read the article and begin to practice these helpful tools.

  • "Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret."
  • Ambrose Bierce

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